Well most guy's out there are players,hustlers,and clubbers.Well i'm here to say that not all guys are like that,in fact there are some guys who just like you girls are looking for that one thing your looking for in every relationship,and that's romance,am i right/wrong? Well that's what i look for anyways,i don't know about those other dudes,they still don't know what they want,all they want is a piece of ass,me i'm not like that,there's so much to a girl,the 1 thing no make that 2 things i look for in a girl is their smile and personality,and i make eye contact,not breast/to eyes.You ladies shouldn't be treated like a piece of property,you're a human being for christ sake,and don't be pissed off at your girl for talking to another guy,if she's doing that then that's a sign that there's no chemistry between the two of you anymore,i should know i've been in 7 relationdhips in the past,it took me a couple hard years of thinking what i did wrong,guys don't put your heart on a shelf,you'll only get hurt that way,and don't be so fraking sellfish,that's the 1 thing us guys are when it comes to a girl breaking up with her boyfriend,we have to have her,she might be our last chance at a relationship,so we try to do everything to make her stay with us,not knowing that the next week she's going to leave us for being a little to selfish,i love talking to girls more than dudes most of the time,girls are not egotistical,and selfcenterd,i'm like that i admit,whenever i workout i think i'm the best specimen on the face of the earth,but at the end  of the day i'm just a guy with warm,sensitive feelings,most guys aren't like that,their always drinking and starting fights,me i don't do either i'm a lover not a fighter,but if you provoke me then you've got another thing coming junior,the 1 thing i hate the most about a girl,and it hurts me to see it face to face is a woman crying,it makes me want to go up to them and give them a soft,and gentle kiss on the lips/no tongue,and hold them in my arms and tell them that everything's alright.And that's what i look for in a girl.