You go out with a girl for more than two months, she's a year older than you, you two go to the same school, you tell her you love her, she says she doesn't believe in love, but she likes you. What do you do?
Dump her
Try to make her fall in love with you
ignore her for a week
keep going out with her, tell her you understand, "love" is to strong a word (for now)
I think I have to agree with Grimslice mostly on this issue. Two months should not be enough time to know if you love someone or not. However, there are circumstances, few and rare that they are, in which a person can fall in love with a person within a short period of time. This hardly ever happens and is the stuff of movies and cheap romance novels, but alas it does happen in real life. And I would think that you would very well know it if you realized you were in love with a person within that short period of time and that you would feel a very strong attraction to that person.
this situation is about me and my boyfriend, we've been going out for 2 months and a bit, and he's told me he loves me, i didnt really give him an answer, but he kept bugging me for one, so i told him the truth. he doesnt know what love is, and neither do i. were too young, and i really like him but its not love. he now understands. but when i told him he got kinda freaked out, i just wanted a guy's point of view
It depends like, how long have you actually been dating cause if its like 3 months, you cant honestly say you love them. You havent spent enough time with the person. Ive been with a girl for years but I dont feel like I love them, I end up breaking up with them anyways. If a girl told me she didnt believe in love after a couple months I wouldnt blame her at all.
I kinda laugh at her, and ask her what she means by "not believing in love", because that's a completely ridiculous idea and doesn't make any sense, and then my opinion of her intelligence would drop a little.
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I think I have to agree with Grimslice mostly on this issue. Two months should not be enough time to know if you love someone or not. However, there are circumstances, few and rare that they are, in which a person can fall in love with a person within a short period of time. This hardly ever happens and is the stuff of movies and cheap romance novels, but alas it does happen in real life. And I would think that you would very well know it if you realized you were in love with a person within that short period of time and that you would feel a very strong attraction to that person.
SEIJU
2008-08-03 16:59:35
this situation is about me and my boyfriend, we've been going out for 2 months and a bit, and he's told me he loves me, i didnt really give him an answer, but he kept bugging me for one, so i told him the truth. he doesnt know what love is, and neither do i. were too young, and i really like him but its not love. he now understands. but when i told him he got kinda freaked out, i just wanted a guy's point of view
SAMANTHA260738264
2008-06-24 22:27:17
It depends like, how long have you actually been dating cause if its like 3 months, you cant honestly say you love them. You havent spent enough time with the person. Ive been with a girl for years but I dont feel like I love them, I end up breaking up with them anyways. If a girl told me she didnt believe in love after a couple months I wouldnt blame her at all.
GRIMSLICE
2008-06-19 19:25:27
ima girl but im bi so i'l comment i also dnt belive in love so i'd try to get in her pants than dump her thats wat u shld do
SEXYCOOLFUN
2008-06-19 14:57:31
I don't know. Probably have a panic attack then see how it goes.
KERNAGHAN
2008-06-19 08:57:47
love is just a concept anyway,get the hell over it.if you are in love with her it should be enough to just be with her any way
NOONECARES
2008-06-18 20:15:44
I kinda laugh at her, and ask her what she means by "not believing in love", because that's a completely ridiculous idea and doesn't make any sense, and then my opinion of her intelligence would drop a little.
ICLHSTUDIOS
2008-06-18 13:27:38